Re-imagining continued
So thanks to both Rossecorp and Lionmom for some contributions. The problem is so complicated that every idea any of us (including me!) come up with raise more questions.
After reading the comments that both Lionmom and Rossecorp posted on my last entry I am now pondering these questions:
1. How do we recruit enough good foster families?
2. What makes a good foster family?
3. What sort of training and support do families need to function well?
4. Which kids in the system should be placed in families?
5. How should we match kids and families?
6. Which kids need an alternative to foster families?
7. What would those alternatives look like?
1. How do we recruit enough good foster families?
ReplyDeleteWord of mouth. Churches. Civic leaders promoting the agenda. Outreach to professional organizations. Have the kids talk. Reimagine it for the potential foster parents. Don't ask them to do it forever or do it with a bunch of kids - just show them how one or two kids could be added to their families in a positive manner.
2. What makes a good foster family?
Education. Not necessarily formal education, but training and a willingness to reflect and grow. what keeps a family "good" in my opinion, is the level of support from the professionals and other foster parents.
3. What sort of training and support do families need to function well?
We need connections with other foster parents. We need to feel like we are heard. We need practical, hands-on techniques and problem solving with other families.
4. Which kids in the system should be placed in families?
As much as availability allows, all kids who think they want a family should be given a shot. But there are definite behaviors that show a kid isn't really trying or interested.
5. How should we match kids and families? Lots of preplacement visits. Consideration of activity level and flow. Common interests.
6. Which kids need an alternative to foster families?
Those that want one.
7. What would those alternatives look like?
More on this later.
What makes a good foster family? One that holds on tight, one that loves them like their own. One that loves them enough to let go. One that loves them more than their own feelings. One that says, you will always be a part of the family no matter where you are.
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