Update on Talking to Gary
In the car the other day I told him casually that I was going to make an appointment for his GAL to come talk to him about what he wants, "That way the judge will know what is important to you and you won't have to go to court."
I've decided that even though he is 17 I will be aggressive about making sure they have time together. In the past I just made sure they had each other's phone numbers and left it up to Gary. Once I get her here, I will get out of the way. Maybe she will even take him somewhere for fast food or something.
Anyway, I think that is the best I can do for him.
I think it is a good idea. I think sometimes, kids do want and need for us to make that first step for them.
ReplyDeleteThat sounds like the best thing. Sometimes we all need a push in the right direction.
ReplyDeleteHey! This is me, just saying hello & wondering if all is well... We needz an update! :)
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