tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21112957.post7111616358078271145..comments2023-09-23T02:16:11.746-06:00Comments on Thoughts from a Foster Family: Update on the updateYondallahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10375966725096729570noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21112957.post-2010998656933562662006-09-19T11:55:00.000-06:002006-09-19T11:55:00.000-06:00Frontal lobe development not done yet! The causal ...Frontal lobe development not done yet! The causal relationship, if I do this, than this will/can happen is NOT there yet. Frustrating for those of us who see ahead clearly. Personally? I wouldn't allow Evan to bring anyone over that you didn't know well without an adult being home. Too much liability, too scary, and I don't want to worry about who is in my house. But that is me!Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15530972001172936718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21112957.post-47196599713553920892006-09-18T22:20:00.000-06:002006-09-18T22:20:00.000-06:00You are being much calmer about everything than I ...You are being much calmer about everything than I would be in the same situation. "No, you may <i>not</i> bring your lovers to the house, period!!!"<br /><br />If I was feeling generous, I'd say he could bring them, but only after I'd met them and had a sit-down dinner with them.<br /><br />I'd be worried, for all the reasons you have mentioned, too.<br /><br />I have a lot of gay male friends, and so many of them engage in risky sexual behavior when they are young. One of my dearest friends is an incredible slut, and I worry that he's either going to come down with a terrible, incurable disease or that he'll be injured, robbed or worse by some guy he doesn't know.<br /><br />I wish it were easier to pound sense into people...FosterAbbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11431773317761777407noreply@blogger.com